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Post by caressa on Sept 16, 2010 8:20:45 GMT -5
September 16 Emotional Balance
"Emotional balance is one of the first results of meditation, and our experience bears this out."
Basic Text p.45
Though each of us defines "emotional balance" a little differently, all of us must find it. Emotional balance can mean finding and maintaining a positive outlook on life, regardless of what may be happening around us. To some, it might mean an understanding of our emotions that allows us to respond, not react, to our feelings. It can mean that we experience our feelings as intensely as we can while also moderating their excessive expression.
Emotional balance comes with practice in prayer and meditation. We get quiet and share our thoughts and hopes and concerns with the God of our understanding. Then we listen for guidance, awaiting the power to act on that direction.
Eventually, our skills in maintaining near-balance get better, and the wild up-and-down emotional swings we used to experience begin to settle. We develop an ability to let others feel their feelings; we have no need to judge them. And we fully embrace our own personal range of emotions.
Just for today: Through regular prayer and meditation, I will discover what emotional balance means to me.
pg. 270
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Post by caressa on Sept 16, 2010 8:21:35 GMT -5
Have been doing a lot of meditation lately. Woke up feeling much better.
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Post by BW on Sept 16, 2010 10:05:50 GMT -5
This is a tuff one if I listen the the racket in my head and those around me. What works for one person may or may not work for another ..I must go within to find what works for me and that is not within my head where the chatter of justification and rationalization lives...It goes much deeper than that..Well... actually it is 18 inches from the head to the heart...When I get out of my head and go to my heart for meditation and prayer I find my truth and my center.
Thanx Caressa for a great read
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Post by caressa on Sept 16, 2010 16:47:01 GMT -5
Thank you for sharing. I learned a long time ago, what works for someone else, doesn't always work for me. My sponsor said, "When you go to a meeting, you will learn two things, how to work your program and how not to work your program." What worked in early recovery may no longer serve me in today or visa versa.
He was more my spiritual advisor than sponsor as I had women sponsors too. He was the first one I heard say, the longest journey I will ever make is from my head to my heart. I lived in my head for so many years, it is a comfortable place for me and I find myself there far too many times. I can still intellectualize things and want to know the reason why instead of just accepting and just being in the moment.
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