My life is unmanageable when managed by me. Yet often, when life happens and I get caught up in 'stuff' and I don't realize what is going on, until I am in it, and need to get myself out of it.
When I do the do things, pick up my phone, go on the internet, read my books, do a meditation and talk to my God, things come into their true perspective.
There is a great quote in Courage to Change from Al-Anon which gave me the thought for discussion.
If problems arise today, I will try to acknowledge them - and then put a little spiritual space between my problems and myself. If I can share them with another person, I will further diminish their power. Recognizing that my life is unmanageable is the first step toward managing it.
"...when we bring things out into the light, they lose their power over us."
unmanageable...Hmmmm...usually that's when I refuse to accept it the way it is...Just like the book says..."Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today" yep there is that key word again...that little three letter word "ALL" and I have to be reminded acceptance doesn't mean I have to like it...beleive me there's a great many things I really don't like...yet I have to learn to accept them...just as they are
My life is unmanageable when I put my life on hold waiting for someone else to make a decision.
My life is unmanageable when I don't practice putting more balance in my life. When everything is all computer, it isn't healthy. Even though I balance my time between several sites, I don't think that counts.
My life is unmanageable when I allow my pain to rule my life. When I give up doing and just let my pain dictate my actions, my life is unmanageable.
My life is unmangeable when I do everything at once and don't balance my day. Like this week, I was in for three days because of the weather and then I had to play catch up. It would have been much more manageable to do things Wednesday and Thursday.
My life is unmanageable when I don't accept what is in the moment, no matter 'what ' is. I don't have to like it, but I do need to accept it before I can move beyond it.
My lfie is unmanageable when I don't write things down and write reminders and then forget where I put the reminder or forget the list. Fibromyalgia has a way of doing that to me. I think I have paid, but have only thought of doing and I didn't follow up the thought with action.
I get the thought to take something out for supper. If I don't act on it, it is gone and when dinner time comes, nothing is thawed.
It isn't a whole lot unmanageable like it was prior to recovery. I no longer have to rob Peter to pay Paul because I drank the money. I don't have to make partial payments because I spent the money on others things.
My life is unmanageable when managed by me. If my God lead me to it, He will see me through it. Doesn't look manageable and doable sometimes, but it is amazing how things turn out sometimes.
When I "let go and let God" everything in my life is manageable! It's when I start "Edging God Out" that chaos enters.....
Our lives do revolve around acceptance and when we don't accept life on life's terms this is when we run into problems.... I can work to change the things I can, but I am not powerful enough to change everything. It's impossible for me to put a spell on my son and say "poof you'll never drink again", it just doesn't work that way. I have given my son over to God's hands and when the time is right, God's will, will prevail!
Peace on the journey, SunnyGirl
God, Grant me the maturity to accept what I'm feeling and the courage to correct the actions that I took that made me feel this way.