Post by caressa on Aug 24, 2011 1:48:29 GMT -5
"We learn to be careful of praying for specific things."
Basic Text p. 45
Found out about this the hard way, be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.
I asked for a boyfriend. I got one. He even bought a car, a requirement on my list. . He got so comfortable in my space, he wanted to move in and not make space for himself.
I told him I wasn't willing for someone to move in with me. When we broke up, it took three trips to take his belongs back.
He got very angry when I told him that he wasn't in my life because I needed him there, he was there because I wanted him there. I no longer wanted him invading my space. He felt that I should need him and tried to make himself indispensible to be, going so far as isolating me from my friends, which is one of the biggest indicators of abuse.
When you go into a relationship needy, you are looking for that person to fill yur needs because you are not able to do it for yourself. You are not trusting your God to meeting your needs, you are not having faith in your Higher Power and yourself. When I get needy, I get greedy, and I start looking outside of myself to make me feel better. That is not how the program works. When the relationship ended, I had to go for sexual assault counseling. I thought God why did you put this person in my path, he is not for me. What he allowed me to do was look at myself, to trust God, and clear more of the wreckage of my past away and I had major healing as a result of it.
I will make wrong choices. The nice thing is, God allows you to make another one. I don't have to stay 'stuck' in that choice. I can make another decision and I can learn from it. God's will for me is to be the best me I can be in today. I believe He wants me to be balance - mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. In order to get that balance I have to go within and balance myself and my chakras. I can not balance it to what is around me. That way I can find the peace be it peaceful or chaotic.
God supplies my needs. Anything that I put between me and him, becomes my god.
Basic Text p. 45
Found out about this the hard way, be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.
I asked for a boyfriend. I got one. He even bought a car, a requirement on my list. . He got so comfortable in my space, he wanted to move in and not make space for himself.
I told him I wasn't willing for someone to move in with me. When we broke up, it took three trips to take his belongs back.
He got very angry when I told him that he wasn't in my life because I needed him there, he was there because I wanted him there. I no longer wanted him invading my space. He felt that I should need him and tried to make himself indispensible to be, going so far as isolating me from my friends, which is one of the biggest indicators of abuse.
When you go into a relationship needy, you are looking for that person to fill yur needs because you are not able to do it for yourself. You are not trusting your God to meeting your needs, you are not having faith in your Higher Power and yourself. When I get needy, I get greedy, and I start looking outside of myself to make me feel better. That is not how the program works. When the relationship ended, I had to go for sexual assault counseling. I thought God why did you put this person in my path, he is not for me. What he allowed me to do was look at myself, to trust God, and clear more of the wreckage of my past away and I had major healing as a result of it.
I will make wrong choices. The nice thing is, God allows you to make another one. I don't have to stay 'stuck' in that choice. I can make another decision and I can learn from it. God's will for me is to be the best me I can be in today. I believe He wants me to be balance - mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. In order to get that balance I have to go within and balance myself and my chakras. I can not balance it to what is around me. That way I can find the peace be it peaceful or chaotic.
God supplies my needs. Anything that I put between me and him, becomes my god.
. I will be back looking for Lin and others.