Lost Messages

[Caressa2]

What message did you most need to hear?

"One word frees us from the weight and pain of life; that word is love." --Sophocles

In exploring the enneagram, Riso and Hudson have identified ‘lost messages’ that we needed to hear as children but didn’t. The absence of these words may be at the heart of our most basic fear. And unconsciously we may still be seeking to hear these words from others.

Review the following messages and note if any one touches you more strongly than the others:

1. "You are good."

2. "You are wanted."

3. "You are loved for yourself."

4. "You are seen for who you are."

5. "Your needs are not a problem."

6. "You are safe."

7. "You will be taken care of."

8. "You will not be betrayed."

9. "Your presence matters."

"Oh the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are -- chaff and grain together -- certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away."

-- Dinah Mulock

Answer the life long question “Who Am I?” To understand life, you must first understand yourself. Uncover different aspects of who you are and where you are going in life.

groups.msn.com/TheLightworkers

[bluidkiti]

Just a note - that link at the bottom should read:

groups.msn.com/TheLightworkers

[Caressa2]

Thanks my friend. You would think I would know how to type in my own website. LOL.

That is what I get for posting in the wee smalls.

Love the saying after you signature. Remember the old sayings:

Love is....

Not having to say your sorry!
Not always having to be always right!
Chocolate!

[bluidkiti]

LMBO

I certainly understand. I get up early in the mornings to send out readings in email and sometimes I goof and hopefully everyone understands. LOL Sometimes I will be typing and look up and my hands have typed something entirely different than what I was thinking. LOL

Now Back to the Wonderful Topic which I thought was great!

[Lin]

Am I missing something? both links look alike to me. LOL

LIN

[Caressa2]

It's called utilizing "modify" when a friend tells you that you made a 'boo boo' in a nice way!

[adagio]

Caressa, that list says it all. I, myself could answer several in that list...I take that back...how about all of them? All I can do is work on one at a time, while working on my current problems. Thanks for the list! ;D

[caressa]

A good reminder. The site referred to here is no longer. I built 10 not knowing what I was doing. People told me about copyrights and because of format errors, I deleted them all and started again. They have been a creative outlet for me; but more importantly, they have been a way of doing service and giving back what was so freely given to me. I have met some great teachers on my journey.

Tonight I have been download my new sites and while this has been happening, I have been reading old posts. They are still good in today.