Post by majestyjo on Sept 25, 2017 20:42:49 GMT -5
September 25
One More Day
Fate chooses our relatives. We choose our friends.
– Jacques Bossuet
We had no choice — and still have no choice — as to whether our families are supportive and caring. Those of us who lived in negative or unnurturing families may find that we slip into similar situations as adults. Without realizing it, we may have fostered friendships that allow us to use the same old scripts — the same unhealthy scripts.
One of the things we’ve learned from our illness is we must be willing to nurture ourselves. We need approval and love, and we have it within our power to give that gift to ourselves. We also can enter only into friendships based on these qualities, allowing us to be cared for and to care for others.
I choose today to work toward healthy, loving friendships.
One More Day
Fate chooses our relatives. We choose our friends.
– Jacques Bossuet
We had no choice — and still have no choice — as to whether our families are supportive and caring. Those of us who lived in negative or unnurturing families may find that we slip into similar situations as adults. Without realizing it, we may have fostered friendships that allow us to use the same old scripts — the same unhealthy scripts.
One of the things we’ve learned from our illness is we must be willing to nurture ourselves. We need approval and love, and we have it within our power to give that gift to ourselves. We also can enter only into friendships based on these qualities, allowing us to be cared for and to care for others.
I choose today to work toward healthy, loving friendships.
. I will be back looking for Lin and others.