"When you have to go into your head," says an Al-Anon friend, 'don't go alone. It's not a safe neighborhood." My experience certainly corroborates the truth of this statement. Now when I have to go inside my mind for some serious thinking and I can't travel with a program person, I take my Higher Power. When I have trouble contacting that Power, I follow a simple, three-point plan my sponsor taught me.
.First, I remind myself that I've been in this neighborhood before.
.Second, I make a gratitude list, usually beginning with food, clothing, and shelter.
.Third, I meditate and pray that my Higher Power will give me a sign that I'm going in the right direction. Much as I might like to see a lightning bolt hurled from the sky, I make myself receptive to less dramatic moments of insight.
With the glint of light this process provides, the neighborhood may not look like an amusement park, yet it still feels passable. It is, after all, my neighborhood.
Thought for the Day When I think myself into a troubled state, I will remember this: Don't look around, look up.
"It can help to replace obsessive thoughts with something positive. such as an Al-Anon slogan, the Serenity Prayer; or another comforting topic that has nothing to do with my problem." Courage to Change, p. 306
majestyjo: This is what chat brought me to.
Mar 22, 2020 22:47:18 GMT -5
joeykins: I can see where chat brought you jo
Mar 23, 2020 5:27:56 GMT -5
majestyjo: Happy New Year to all those who stop by.
Jan 2, 2021 4:11:29 GMT -5
joeykins: Update MajestyJo is in rehab hospital again having trouble standing up and vision issues. Has not been able to log in as no internet. Shes in good spirits and requested that i mention Tammy and Lin so they dont worry.
Apr 8, 2021 6:44:01 GMT -5
BW: So many have passed and now JO. God must have needed her to share and chat with all the others
Jun 9, 2021 15:22:29 GMT -5
loras: So sorry to hear that JO has passed.BW I agree God muat have needed her in heaven.Such a shock for me to FINALLY be with a computer again and the first place I came to only to find out that JO has passed.. . I will be back looking for Lin and others.
Jun 20, 2021 7:32:46 GMT -5
Ron: Does chat work and is anyone using it?
Jul 24, 2022 11:46:24 GMT -5
Lin: I dont know Ron...we have not used it in a while. Caressa and BW and I mostly use the coffee shop.
Aug 7, 2022 6:47:15 GMT -5
Lin: Good to have you drop by!
Aug 7, 2022 6:47:22 GMT -5
bluidkiti: I got a message from BW today. She said she has had computer problems and been pretty sick. She said that she hopes she is on the mend now. Please keep her in your prayers.
May 2, 2023 16:51:52 GMT -5
MrDuck: Been some time since I have popped in. See it is pretty quiet. Wish the best for all. Take care. Ron AKA MR DUck
May 19, 2024 18:01:01 GMT -5