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Post by caressa on Sept 6, 2010 11:59:31 GMT -5
This is an area which I am not able to commit to. My pain is always worse at night and don't do well traveling at night.
I regularly visit the four web sites that I post on. That is a daily commitment. When I came into recovery, I did two meetings a day for two years. At 10 years sober, I was still doing 7-10 meetings a week because of service commitments. After that, the numbers decreased to 3 a week. The last few years I am luck if I get 3 f2f meetings a month. That is why I am so grateful for the on line meeting here.
Meetings were important. I found myself reflected in the people there. My sponsor said, "You can learn two things there. How to work your program and how not to work your program.
Going to meetings helped me to choose a sponsor. I wanted someone who had what I wanted, more importantly, someone who was walking their talk.
My bridge partner informed me last Friday he wouldn't be available this coming Friday. He figured he would be too tired from work to be a good partner and wouldn't be able to enjoy himself. I said, "That works for me, I can go and pick up my multiple years key tag for my anniversary." Doesn't matter that it is 3 weeks late. I wish the meeting was on another night and not on my bridge night as it is just across the street. Even so, in he winter time, it isn't always accessible. My walker doesn't come equipped with snow tires.
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Post by BW on Sept 6, 2010 21:25:03 GMT -5
They say meeting makers make it...I don't quite agree...It is the folks who take what they learn and in the meetings out and practice it in their daily activites...That being said if meeting makers do make it and if our progam is "all inclusive and never exclusive" then why is it that there are so very many meetings that are in places that the disabled cannot get into...That is a pet peeve of mine...I am so very grateful for the online recovery becaseu of this issue ...Yet I also know the importance of F2F...seeing the eyes of people...seeing the healing and hearing the hope...feeling the hugs and giving the hugs, being able to reach out to someone who is obviously not able to reach out themselves...those are the things I miss when I cannot get to the meetings...
During the holidays when the marathon meetings are going on both the alano club and the other club that hold the marathon meetings, not only are they in other towns where those without cars cannot get to but neither are accessible to or for the disabled. That saddens me
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Post by caressa on Sept 8, 2010 8:52:48 GMT -5
Sorry the meetings aren't acessible to you, we are quite fortunate that many are wheel chair accessible. Our club is accessible but the washroom isn't.
Meetings are what saved me, they gave me a reason to get up each day and to stay clean and sober each day so i could go to one at night.
I just received a call from my son. He is going to meetings and drinking. As I say to so many people, take the words off the pages of the literature and apply it to your life. As you say, they can occupy a chair. They can go regularly, and yet if they don't take what they hear, and put it to active use, the program doesn't work. It only works if you work it.
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