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Post by caressa on Oct 14, 2010 10:42:34 GMT -5
October 14 The End Of Loneliness
"With the love that I am shown in Narcotics Anonymous, I have no excuse for loneliness."
Basic Text p. 262
Addiction is a lonely disease. We may be surrounded by people but, sooner or later, our addiction drives a wedge between us and even our closest loved ones. Many of us are driven to Narcotics Anonymous by a desperate loneliness.
Though we may approach the rooms of NA with caution and suspicion, we are welcomed with a hug, a smile, and a warm "keep coming back." This may be the first place where we have felt welcome in a long, long while. We watch other members talking and laughing, leaving the meeting in groups for more talk at the local coffee shop. We wonder if we, too, could become a part of this loving bunch.
Our pattern of isolation can make it difficult for us to join in. Over time, however, we begin to feel "a part of" rather than "apart from." Soon, when we walk into the rooms, we feel at home. We begin to make friends and our lives start to change.
NA teaches us how to overcome our isolation. Through our first tentative friendships formed in our home group, we start to find that making friends isn't hard. A sense of belonging comes when we share ourselves with others.
Just for today: I am thankful for the friendships my Higher Power has given me in NA. Because of them, I am lonely no more.
pg. 300
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Post by BW on Oct 14, 2010 12:45:04 GMT -5
That's a good read...however, for me, I have to remember people are human and will at times let me down...HP will always walk with me..With Him by my side I am never alone...That is a fact I can depend on
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Post by caressa on Oct 14, 2010 15:05:31 GMT -5
Yes I had to learn that I can't project my expectations onto people who are not capable of meeting them. My God puts people in my path all the time. That doesn't mean that they are to be a part of my life forever and ever. Once I meet someone, I have trouble letting them go. That is why I like the reading, A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime. www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLltt5cPDOc
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