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Post by SunnyGirl on Sept 6, 2012 14:27:49 GMT -5
If nothing changes...
My younger Son (qualifier) has been making great strides in finally acting like an adult. He's been running a little late in doing it (35), but better late than never. I posted earlier that he had finally gotten his own condo.... He saved money and went about it in all the right ways, my only contribution was to help get his power turned on.
I got a call from him yesterday and while he was working (graveyard shift) his condo was broken into and the only things they took were a shot gun his Dad had given him and $800 in cash. He had been doing so good not drinking or gambling and was actually acting mature and now this. I guess for some, it doesn't take much to send them back to the bottle and this was his excuse. He called me from a bar and was totally blitzed and so upset over the whole thing. I offered to give him a ride over to my house until they get the window fixed (the one they broke to get into the house) He refused....
There's nothing much I can do.... I know it's not my job to try to "fix" the situation but I do feel bad for him because he really was trying this time around. I suppose that's just the way life is, we have situations come up that test our faith and resolve. Our job is to stay on the journey, there are always going to be storms but if you go with the current you'll make it though safely.
Please keep him in your prayers.... SG
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Post by Lin on Sept 6, 2012 17:29:56 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this SG. Over the years I have learned , when they want to drink they will find an excuse. So even though the breakin was bad, he probably jsut used it for an excuse to drink.
Nothing changes if nothing changes. That right. But the good thing...YOU have changed over the years and now you know better how to handle your actions over this. He made a choice and it's a sad one.
I will pray for both ofyou. LIN
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Post by caressa on Sept 6, 2012 22:27:41 GMT -5
Sorry to hear this SG. I know what you are going through. My son walked off the job on Wednesday. He was angry at the foreman and called the head guy in the afternoon who wasn't too happy he hadn't called sooner. My son said he wasn't worried about getting fired, but if he did, he would go to detox. In the evening, he went to see friends, had a couple beers, borrowed some money, went to see another friend and had more....
It is sad, but it is their choices and there is nothing we can do but pray. Prayers for you and yours.
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Post by majestyjo on Oct 3, 2020 19:26:46 GMT -5
This was posted eight years ago.
I am powerless but I can love and support on his journey.
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