BOY I THOUGHT MY LIFE WAS FULL!

[rosepedilgirl]

WELL JUST WHEN I WAS STARTING TO MAKE LIGHT.

MY SISTER CALLED , HER SHE CAME WITH THREE KIDS,,,

SHE FOUNDLY LEFT HIM, BUT THE TRUTH HAS NOW

CAME OUT THEY WERE BOTH USING,,,

I COULDN'T YELL.....

I COULD ONLY TRY MY BEST..

SO ALL 4 LIVING WITH ME TILL I WAS ABLE

TO FIND A THREE BEDROOM APT AFFORDABLE

FOR THEM. WORK RECOVERY WITH MY STEP SISTER..

I CAN'T SAY I DIDN'T KNOW, I JUST WANTED TO BELIEVE

IT WAS HIM.. NOT HER..

WELL ITS HAS BEEN THREE WEEKS MY SISTER CLEAN..

AND WORKING TO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS...

HE IS FOUNDLY IN REHAB,SHE PLANS NOT TO TAKE

HIM BACK..

I AM PRAYING THAT GOD HELPS...

WE DON'T NEED HIM IN OUR FAMILY, HE WENT TO

REHAB FOR THE SAKE THAT HE WANTS HER BACK,

NOT FOR HIMSELF. HE WRITES 5-7 LETTERS A DAY.

NOW IS BEING VERY MEAN AND ABUSIVE IN THE LETTERS

DO TO THE FACT SHE TOLD HIM ITS OVER..


I NEED ALL THE PRAYERS I CAN GET..


NOT FOR ME!

FOR MY SISTER,,, I AM SO WORRIED HE IS GOING

TO HURT HER... WHEN HE GETS OUT.. AND

THE LETTER CAME TODAY SAYING NEXT WEEKEND...

WE HAVE READ THE LETTERS BUT NOT RESPONDED


AFTER SHE WROTE THE ONE LETTER BACK TELLING

HIM TO LET GO....


PLEASE SAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR SHIRLEY,,,,,,

AND THE KIDS... ASK GOD TO KEEP THEM SAFE...

THEY ARE THREE BLOCKS AWAY FROM ME...

I CAN'T BE WHERE ALL THE TIME..

SHIRLEY IS CLEAN AND WANTS TO BE....

AND HE NEEDS TO LET GO...................


THANK YOU FOR ANY PRAYER

SHE SURLY NEEDS THEM,,,,,

@--(--(------- MJO

[dg]

Hi mjo..

I saw your post tonite, and sending prayers for your sister shirley and kids.
Hope things works out for all of you.
god bless,
take care.

[SunnyGirl]

Hi MaryJo....

For some reason I have had you on my mind
lately, I was thinking of you and wondering how
you were doing.....

I'm sorry to hear all of you have this heartache
going on in your life right now. But if God leads
ya to it, HE will lead you thru it.

Shirley and her kids and all of you that love her,
will be added to my prayer list. Keep the faith
and I'll keep sending up prayers.....

Peace on the journey, SG

[rosepedilgirl]

thank you all..


i do know the power of GOD.

thats why iam asking for all the prayers my step

sister can get. this guy had controled her for 5 years.

i never thought my sister would ever use.

growing up she wouldn't even drink,

and she hates wasting money...

but i knew ,,,

they never seemed to be able to buy anything,

the school would tell me their children didn't have

a $1.oo for lunch. i leave $10.00 and tell them not

to say anything to them just made sure the kids had a

hot lunch or anything they wanted. let me know when

they needed more money for them.

the kids hated him, scared of him. sometime they'd

say it and the 8 year old would stop them , telling

them daddy would get real mean if he knew..

they lived 1/2 hour away, and i was around more so on weekends.

because of the 8 year old she has my heart.

but she was very closed mouthed.

now i have heard so much..........................


i am so worried... i know god placed them by me for a

saftey reason. i can't do it all. his a big man.craized

over his loss. my sister supported him and the family.

he'd fight her for every penny. and scared she did,

what he said.

i am so shocked, i never fought it was as bad as it

was.

but like all addictions it doesn't stop till they stop it..

thank GOD shirley found a way out . he writes

that he will hurt me and blames me. he says he will get

his family back. my sister has a son to him, the other two children are not his.

but he is something else. i can only pray she goes and

gets a PFA. protection from abuse on him.

i keep saying it. she told my mom yesturday when

he get out if she just lets him see his son on

weekends he'll stop. i went over and thank GOD

was able to say'' shirley please don't make another

mistake. he'll take him and we'll have to fight to get him

back. please go to the court house. i can only pray

GOD gets her to the judge and gets papers drawn.

i don't want to say ''''' i told you so to her..

or get a phone call that she is died.

i called the rehab yesturday , of course they said they couldn't confirm or denie him being where.

well i couldn't seem to speak to anyone. they wouldn't

put me threw. so i told the lady please let someone know he is writing 5-7 letters, being abusive,

make suggestions of someones going to die, and go to

someone going to jail. he is crazied...

i just pray they work with him.. i told them i fear for my step sister life.

i just hope i don't come on line and say he done

anything. well its sat. and i'm breathing, worried but ok.

the 8 year old is here at my house for the weekend..

i am praying for the others ...

thank you for listening,, i just need to air this...

ty @--(--(------mjo

[rosepedilgirl]

well all is calm so far;

we did get word about 7 more letters from him ,
my step sister doesn't even answer them ,but
he keeps on writting.

he now says will be out in two weekends.

i keep praying;;;

the letter are getting worse,now he is
telling her, she better have her door's locked
at all times.

this guy is going to be a big problem for her.

she has talked to the court house , but so
far she keeps saying he won't hurt her.

i keep telling her to please just make sure.

and go get help while she can..

keep her in your prayers.

thank you all.... @--(--(----

[rosepedilgirl]

talked to my sister landlord, and they let me buy dead bolts for both doors.

today they installed them,

now all we do is pray! they are safe and if he

does come around , the police will get him before he gets inside.

my sister is now believing in me more and has

foundly agreed to be safe than sorry.

i'll keep you all posted .... i need to air this somewhere.

ty @--(--(------

[SunnyGirl]

( ( ( ( MJ ) ) ) )

Thank you for the updates.... I am keeping all
of you in my prayers! Hugs, SG

[rosepedilgirl]

ty sure need them right now.....
@--(--(-------

[rosepedilgirl]

ok my step sister foundly got tired of him and asked me to take her to the court house. the letter were stronger, and he now told her he'll kill her and himself.

we got a temp PFA , go to court tuesday this coming week.

he came out of rehab thursday and called yelling so we did change her phone number and decided not to give it to anyone, since someone gave it to him ..

the kids are safe as of now. iam just praying daily.

i did speak to our mayor and the chief of police, they know where i stand and said they will do their best to protect her.

he is crazied right now. he even had his check come to her house, in witch i certified it back to his mother address.

i just hope the judge gives her a complete PFA,
she is going to need it..

we always knew he would get like this,but i just want her happy now...

more and more truth comes out daily now, she is starting to come back to normal behavior and staying completly away from addiction herself.

at least with me being in recovery i can share with her.
i am foundly reaching her. he had her so convinced
not to trust her family, that we'd steal her children from her..

i told her the other day i love all of them but i cannot raise her children, thats her job, but she had to protect them and the pfa helps.....

i just hope she stick's to her mind, not let him around them anymore... lots of prayers are needed here....

thank u all for saying a few here and where..

@--(--(--------

[SunnyGirl]

( ( ( ( MaryJo ) ) ) )

Thank you for the update, I have been following
this situation from the beginning. I would think
any judge would grant her this letter of protection.
You and your family remain in my prayers......
Stay safe ! Hugs, SG