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Post by majestyjo on Jan 5, 2017 19:17:07 GMT -5
Assertive/Submissive Well I was assertive today when I called Darts and they said I had no booking for today. I said, "How can you add a passenger to my ride that is not there." She said, "The ride is booked on the 12th." Grrrrrrr. I said, "This is not acceptable to me. This was booked over 6 weeks ago, and I was told it would take 3 weeks to put in place. I need to be at my appointment today. I said, "Thankfully it isn't snowing, but it is very cold. If you can't accomadate me, then I will have to take a bus. I said, "Riding on a bus, especially the express one, is very painful for me." Please see what you can do, it would be appreciated." They found a ride for me to and from my home group. To top it off, they had the wrong information on the contract they had in place. I just didn't let it go, I set the record straight. It didn't make a difference if they made a mistake today, but to continually make one is unacceptable and I would have had to cancel the service. I am not going to wait for over half an hour for transportation that doesn't come. They say, "How important is it?" It was important. Important for my health and well being, as well as for my sobriety.
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Post by Lin on Jan 6, 2017 6:55:26 GMT -5
I sometimes see assertive as being bossy. SO I try to keep that one reined back. I am not submissive..unless y9ou count keeping my mouth shut arudn him lately to keep the peace. I dont let people walk over me. That's for sure! I am more of the assertive side of this one.
LIN
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