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Post by Misty on May 4, 2005 19:14:04 GMT -5
I am going out of town Thursday nite into Friday and want to cover
the chip for Friday. I want to be
relaxed and know that this column is up to date as much as possible.
Are you relaxed or defensive? Please let me know Thanks--Mistyeve
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Post by johnl on May 5, 2005 20:13:27 GMT -5
I used to be defensive when I drank but now I am relaxed
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Post by Lin on May 6, 2005 4:19:46 GMT -5
Thanks John for that. I never knew active drinking might be the reason for the defensiveness i was always being ddealt. I thought it was guilt or drug-induced paranoia.
I am relaxed more of the time than defensive. The only time i get a LITTLE defensive is when a person tells me i am not working myprogram right.. I usually stop when i feel that tendency creep in, think about their point of view and see if there MIGHT be some truth in it. I can almsot always see a little bit at least. Then i relax and get busy.
LIN
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Post by Misty on May 6, 2005 16:28:52 GMT -5
Dear John----You brought back some real humorous but true memories. WE used to cruise around and smoke pot and drink beer. Someone would see a cop and say "its the cops act straight!" I am a lot more relaxed now when I see a cop cuz I don't have to act straight I AM STRAIGHT!!! LOL Thanks for stopping by-----Mistyeve
Dear Lin----Yeah I don't take criticism very well either. It might of been drug induced paranoia
now that ya mention it!!! Thanks for stopping by!----Mistyeve
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Post by BigJim on May 6, 2005 23:14:27 GMT -5
Dear Misty Eve!!
Well EOR finally took my password and I am back hehehe!!
I have been waiting for a scooter so I can get out and be indepndant again ...people have said to me over and over that it will not be good for me so I felt very defensive about it. Funny thing is how do they know how I am feeling and how much pain I was in, sure I can walk but when I did my legs would feel numb and it would scare me because it felt like I was going to fall down. Today I got the news that I was going to get my scooter and now I can get back out there...that made me feel relaxed!!
Have another good 24 hours everybody!
LOve&HUgs
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Post by Misty on May 6, 2005 23:24:49 GMT -5
My Very Dear Sweet Wonderful Jim!!!
Welcome Back Honey!!! I am sorry that you are in such a condition to have to have a motorized wheel chair but I am also so glad that you now have the equipment that you need to take care of yourself. Please keep coming back! It is good
to hear from you! Thanks---Mistyeve
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. I will be back looking for Lin and others.