Wednesday Chip---Rude/Polite

[Misty]

I am so hurt and disgusted with a man I used to know and love. He is such a rude and ignorant person that I should be glad I have nothing to do with him. He just quit talking to me, calling me, and emailing me without any explanation. I will NOT contact him cuz he has always gloated how
women phone stalk him. His rude
behavior has hurt me deeply and I have questioned what I did wrong. I have done nothing wrong and am
polite enough to NOT confront the
rude coward. Are you polite or rude please let me know! Thanks!
Mannerly Mistyeve

[Lin]

Rudeness is tough to handle when it is shown to us. I try hard to remind myself...I dont know what this person is dealing with right now. I do it by telling myself..I have no idea who peed in his Cheerios this morning. usually that works for me. As far as polite and rude behavior displayed by ME...it's jsut as easy to be polite as rude. I try to be aware of things like not interrupting others when they are talking, how i reply to a person, etc. Treating others politely and with respect is how I wish to be treated, so I try to do that to others.

Misty...you may never know why the fella is ticked. I'd probably be ticked that my relationships were posted on a message board where millions could see my dirty laundry. (but we all know MILLIONS dont read this one. LOL) Sorry you were left without a clue what set him off. But ya know what? THIS one you didn't have to divorce. You found out he is like this BEFORE the wedding.

LIN

[Misty]

My Very Dear & Persceptive Lin----
Wow! You really hit on a few good answers! I don't see where they should be all upset being talked about on the internet. I didn't use any names!!! If they are that
sensitive then I am disgusted and don't want to associate with them anyway. I don't mean that to sound rude just honest! Honest is a whole other chip so I just want to say thank you so much for stopping by to talk about this....
Sincerely Grateful
Mistyeve