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Post by Misty on Jul 17, 2005 21:29:36 GMT -5
I got to be up early to go to court. We have to be there a 9am.
I have been up and down all night sick to my stomach. I hope the judge finds some equality and gives us a good and fair judgement. Are you prejudice or do you have equality? Please let me know! Thanks----Mistyeve
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Post by Lin on Jul 18, 2005 4:54:46 GMT -5
I assume this court is the final decree on your divorce? May I suggest somethingI do when I know I am in a stressful situation? I carry a serenity prayer card in my pocket. I put my hand on it, pat it, hold it, whatever I need t do and it calms me. I know accepting an end to a marriage is not an easy task, but it's also a new beginning as a single woman ready to tak on the world with a new resolve. Hang in tthere Donna!
equality? Prejudice? I honestly dont think I have ever been prejudiced. groign up in the south I ahve seen alot of it toward the color of a person's skin. I never dated interacially, but I have freinds who were african american and I even socialized with some of them. I dont think I am prejucdiced toward any religion, country, ethnic group, etc. I wish everybody could be treated equally, but unfortunately not all people feel this way. they discriminate because of a person's background, sex, etc. I guess like that starfish you throw back in the ocean. I can save all of them, but to THIS one it will make a difference. So if me being kind to a mexican,Muslim, or whatever... makes a difference to that one person, it's worth it.
LIN
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Post by Misty on Jul 18, 2005 15:26:40 GMT -5
Dear Lin---yeah it was real stress
filled cuz the d**n lawyer was an hour late showing up. I can sure understand all the lawyer jokes I have heard. Thanks for the kind words. Glad you could stop by!!!
Mistyeve
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Post by dg on Jul 18, 2005 16:22:36 GMT -5
Equality is a WE thing in this family as being a part of the recovery program. I know I have to keep in mind that he has to do things his way to remain sober and I have to do things my way to cope with what ever road he chooses.. ****************88 Misty, again I think that if you just put a little more faith in HP that you might not feel so "alone" in your newfound freedom. Who knows you might get a nice suprise out of it all. Sure its hard to have something you had for so long, but if you really put a pro/con list on paper it might just be in you favor of that past to be put to rest.  Have a great eveing and wish you the best in your newfound freedom of being single again. |
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Post by Misty on Jul 18, 2005 22:10:12 GMT -5
Dear DG----The idea of writing on a piece of paper the pros & cons of what is going on is a great way to do a quickie inventory! I have tried it in the past and you are absolutely right! It does work! I am just soooo freaking emotional today that I will have to try that tomorrow. Thanks so much for stopping by honey!!! Mistyeve
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Have a great eveing and wish you the best in your newfound freedom of being single again. 
~With Peace & Love, dg~ 8*)[/b][/size]
. I will be back looking for Lin and others.