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Post by Misty on Jul 21, 2005 23:18:49 GMT -5
I can get very defensive real easy. One of my favorite questions is "are you talking to me?" or else the other favorite line "what do ya mean what do ya mean?" I will try to relax and just enjoy the day. Are you relaxed or defensive??? Please let
me know! Thanks----Mistyeve
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Post by Lin on Jul 22, 2005 3:51:10 GMT -5
I dont recall being defensive lately. The last time i was , it was because somebody told me i was not working my program very well. (and I knew i was...lol)
Most of my life I was told I better not argue...bettter not talk back. So being defensive was not something I practiced much in my life. I was more of a "sit there and let others walk over me person". Then when I found recovery Ilearned not to be that doormat and i started tot ake up for myself. But I dont think I get into the defensive mode very often. Relaxed is a much happier place to be. And I am sure those around me appreciate that I'm not being defensive all the time.
LIN
PS...how did that medical procedure go??? I have the joy of a mammogram this morning. I honestly think a man must have inventeed the machine.
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Post by Misty on Jul 22, 2005 8:11:30 GMT -5
Dear Lin----Yeah defensive is sure to happen when ya feel someone saying something about ya that you KNOW is wrong!!! I got a call late yesterday from the DR that all is well!!!! I am very very very happy about that!!!! I was imagining the worst and you sparked my imagination about picking out a dress for my funeral
I got nothing!!! LOL I can relax &
not worry now cuz from what Dr says I will be around for a while!
No Cancer!!! Thanks for asking...
Sorry about that procedure you had
I hug my "girls" when ever any one
mentions that!!!! Thanks so much for stopping by to chat with me!!!
Happy Fried Day (in the high 90's here today) Love & Hugs---Mistyeve
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. I will be back looking for Lin and others.