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Post by SunnyGirl on Aug 7, 2008 16:03:54 GMT -5
Thursday Chip- Respectful / Disrespectful
I am respectful of other peoples rights and I expect to be treated respectfully. I try not to talk down to others and ask the same in return.
I have always prided myself on my self-respect. I don't like to put myself in a position where others may get the wrong opinion of me. I don't lose any sleep about what others think, but I know what I think of myself.
Peace on the journey.... ~SunnyGirl~
P.S. Hey, somebody jump in there and pull a chip now and then. Don't want you to think I am bogarting the chips ;D
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Post by caressa on Aug 8, 2008 14:12:36 GMT -5
Respect is so important. If I don't respect myself, no one else will. In my animal cards, the skunk means respect. Like everything else, It has to begin with me.
Thanks to recovery, I have learned to respect other people's opinions but that doesn't mean I have to agree with them or even like them. They deserve the right to be heard the same as I do. I choose not to abuse myself or others today and don't allow people in my space who don't respect my sacred space. I don't allow people to smoke in my apartment but I do allow them to smoke on my balcony. It still bothers me when they come in and I smell smoke on their clothes, but it isn't enough that I want to end a friendship over it. I have had to detach from a couple of friends because I can't stand to sit in their homes because of the smoke and the animals. It isn't because I am a snob. It is because it affects my health and I have to respect myself and practice self care.
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