Hallo

[eri]

Hay,

I am new to this...have been brozing the net to find some info...help I don't know. I am not a alcoholic, but my fiance is, he has been in for treatment 2 times. The first time he was sober for about 6 months...the last time, (now) he came out the Friday and started drinking Monday. I don't know how to help...it seems to get worse every time...he doesn't even want to see me. I'm tierd of crying and feel so helpless.

xx

[caressa]

Welcome to the site. There are posts in Nar-Anon and Al-Anon that you may be able to identify with. He may be the alcoholic but alcohol affects you too. It is a disease. He has no control and neither do you. The answer is a spiritual solution. Al-Anon really helped me. I am a recovering alcoholic myself. I am also the daughter of an alcoholic, was married to an alcoholic and my son is an active alcoholic.

Keep coming. Feel free to ask any question and share your feeling and confusion of this dreadful disease.