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Post by SunnyGirl on Dec 13, 2008 17:31:20 GMT -5
SATURDAY CHIP---TOLERANCE/INTOLERANCE
I've had to work on this for a good long time..... Being intolerant had always been a natural act to me. I had my set of standards and anyone who didn't live up to them, were cut out of my life. Things were either right or wrong, black or white, good or bad! The older I get and the more aware of this defect, I come to realize that many times it's not such a well defined area. There are shades and degrees of disapproval and often times I have to stop and wonder, why is this my business.
Most people (myself included) have a good side and a bad side. For the most part, the good out weighs the bad. Luckily for me, God did not leave me in charge of judging the human race. No one is perfect, I'm guessing we all just do the best we can.
So today I am working at being more tolerant of other people and ideas. There really are shades of gray......
Have a wonderful Christmas, SunnyGirl
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Post by Lin on Dec 13, 2008 19:07:35 GMT -5
Excellent insight into this chip!
I think it's liek setting aboundary....there are certain things we tolerate from some people but not from others. Ir we may tolerate at one time in our lives but not another.
I rememebr several times my old boss out me down in front of others.....he got by with it becaues he was the boss. If othes had said those thigns, I woudl ahve called them on it. I was tolerant becaue he was my boss. I told myself..he does nto have a program...or he woudlnot have treated me that way. It's liek.."consider the sourse" and let it go.
I try to be very tolerant and of most peopel and most situations, I am. When I am wronged, I do let the other person know I did not appreciate it.
LIN
LIN
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