FRIDAY CHIP---WILLING/STUBBORN

[SunnyGirl]

FRIDAY CHIP---WILLING/STUBBORN

Hmmmmm...... I pulled this chip for today and I'm
really trying to rationalize it before responding. That
must mean I am feeling a little guilty about something???

I suppose if I am completely honest about it I would
say I am stubborn and resistant to allot of change. On
the other hand, I am working very hard to change the
defects in my character. I'm just not convinced that
change is always a good thing and when I feel this way
I will really dig in and stubbornly cling to what feels
comfortable.

I am willing to give of myself and help others in need.
I am willing to listen and console anyone that is hurting.
I am willing to change, but when the change just doesn't
feel good to me, my first instinct is to revert back to my
old pattern or habbits....... One day at a time!

Peace on the journey, SunnyGirl

[caressa]

I was very willing in early recovery but after the 10 year mark I found myself getting complacent. Then I read an article that said if you are in a comfortable zone it was a good idea to look at change and get out of the rut, push some boundaries and take some risks.

I asked my son if I was stubborn. He said, "Absolutely, 100%" so guess God and I have more work to do on this.

[MrDuck]

Think I will just sencond what Sunny said.

As much as I don't like most major changes they have been to my best interest.

Keep smiling,

Ron

[Lin]

I am a very willing perosn. I am willing to do whatever it takes to maintain my serenity. I am willing to help others and willing to give of my time, talent and treasures to thsoe aroudn me who are in need.

The one thing I am stubbron about is my serenity. If something or somebody is about to put a damper in my serenity, I am on the spot to keep that from happening.

LIN