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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 20, 2009 14:27:40 GMT -5
A short time ago, I received a phone call.... My younger sister and her husband were in a car accident. My brother-in-law was pronounced dead at the scene and my sister is in stable but critical condition. Mom and older sis are on their way to the city to find out more.....
Please add my family and I to your prayer list.... SG
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Post by caressa on Oct 20, 2009 14:45:34 GMT -5
Prayers sent for you and yours. Please keep us informed. Attachments:
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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 20, 2009 21:29:03 GMT -5
update...
My sister is in stable condition, she has multiple fractures... Shoulder-Pelvis-Ribs-Sternum & Spine and a 6 inch gash in her forehead, they are watching her spleen for signs of a rupture. She will have a long road to recovery, they don't think she will be paralyzed with the spinal fracture as she is able to move her legs.
She's going to make it, but she has not been told of her husbands death. Her Son is in route along with her husbands brother.... I am on hold, waiting to see what I can or should be doing....
Thank you for the prayers and keep them coming.... Cherie
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Post by Marcie on Oct 20, 2009 21:31:37 GMT -5
Prayers being sent for you and your family.
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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 21, 2009 12:26:55 GMT -5
My nephew called this morning with an update, she will be going into surgery today to try to put her pelvis back together. They worked for 2 hours last evening to put her forhead back together. She has not been told of her husbands death, she is still very heavily sedated.
Hugs and many thanks for your prayers, Cherie
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Post by caressa on Oct 21, 2009 13:26:57 GMT -5
Thanks for the updates. I will pray that all goes well. Attachments:
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Post by Lin on Oct 21, 2009 16:20:17 GMT -5
How terrible for your sister! I will pray for her. LIN
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Post by dg on Oct 21, 2009 16:26:41 GMT -5
SG, I am so sorry to hear of your sister and brother in law accident. Hope that she gets better and sending you prayers for you and your family.
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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 22, 2009 11:53:01 GMT -5
thank you all for your prayers....
My nephew told my sister that her husband was killed in the wreck and this adds to her mental distress. Both legs are now in a cast, surgery was delayed as her lungs are not in good shape. They are trying to adjust her pain med's and she is having none of it, spent the night screaming and yelling obcenities at the nurses. Through the years she has built up quite a tolerance to pain meds....
My older sister is quite concerned about my Mom, not sure if she has had another small stroke, but they are taking her in to the doctor today.... Luv, SG
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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 24, 2009 11:49:22 GMT -5
update...
My mom is now on a mild mood stabilizer and seems to be doing a little better. Sis is taking her to OK city today she wants so badly to bring her home and take care of her, but this is not an option.
The doctors went ahead with the pelvic bone surgery, according to her son, the surgery went well, she has plates, nuts and bolts etc. holding it together. Ankles are fractured as well and casts on both of them.... Although she was told about husbands death she continues to ask where he is, am guessing the drugs did not allow her to remember. More surgery a possibility, but it's wait and see for now.... Her son is coming home Monday and will take time to regroup, then back again.
Me, I'm hanging in there..... Hugs, Cherie
P.S. thank you for the prayers!
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Post by caressa on Oct 24, 2009 23:01:26 GMT -5
Will continue to pray for you all. Too bad with all the surgery and injuries that she will have to be on strong medicaiton. She isn't going to want to quit them any time soon if she is in a lot of pain.
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Post by Marcie on Oct 25, 2009 19:18:25 GMT -5
Thanks for keeping us up and please take care of you!!
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Post by SunnyGirl on Oct 27, 2009 13:54:14 GMT -5
I have good news this morning, they were able to get my sister out of bed (had to put her on a board to slide her over to the chair) this morning! They have taken the feeding tube out and she is able to have water, she even managed to eat a little breakfast. Looks like she will be moved to a regular room, no more ICU needed. ;D She's still got a long road to travel, a bunch of bones need time for healing as does her frame of mind.....
I want to thank you all again for the prayers.....
Peace on the journey, SunnyGirl
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Post by Marcie on Oct 27, 2009 18:25:25 GMT -5
Thank you SunnyGirl, I've been hoping you all would get some good news soon and that is pretty good. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by caressa on Oct 27, 2009 18:56:04 GMT -5
Glad to hear that there is an improvement. Will continue to pray for her.
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Post by SunnyGirl on Nov 7, 2009 13:06:01 GMT -5
Younger Sis is now in a rehab and in pretty good shape for the shape she's in. Have no idea how long she will be there, but she will eventually relocate back here in Las Vegas with her son and his wife. I can see where this could cause friction but am hoping for the best. Not my decision! At the moment she has $0 income and no prospects of getting any.....
Think this is my last update, although I'm sure I'll be writing about her in the Nar-Anon section on the boards. Again, many thanks to all of you for the prayers and good thoughts, I think they really did their job!
Hugs to each, SG
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Post by Lin on Nov 7, 2009 17:31:44 GMT -5
So glad to hear she is on the mend. I've been poraying for her and for her family.
LIN
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Post by SunnyGirl on Dec 12, 2009 13:15:27 GMT -5
My sister has been home from the hospital for a while now. She got both casts off her legs less than a week ago... It seems at some point she took a fall and the work they did on her pelvis is all undone. She is back in the hospital and will have surgery again. One leg is much shorter than the other and her pelvis is completely tilted and I am not certain what all else is messed up. Only thing I can do is let the doctors do what they can for her. Please keep her in your prayers! She remains sick in her body, mind and spirit!
Peace on the journey, SunnyGirl
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Post by SunnyGirl on Dec 28, 2009 12:06:11 GMT -5
Sis is back home from the hospital again, pelvic surgery this time was even more extensive... They had to open her up front and back side! She seems to be following Dr's orders a little closer..... Takes her pain meds every 4 hrs around the clock. Not a good thing for an addict....
She did speak to me on Christmas Day to thank me for the gift I sent her, other than that no conversations....
I am still firing up prayers and thinking good thoughts....
Peace on the journey, SunnyGirl
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