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Post by caressa on Sept 5, 2010 10:02:10 GMT -5
You are reading from the book Each Day a New Beginning
Pity is the deadliest feeling that can be offered to a woman. —Vicki Baum
We must move forward with confidence, trusting that the strength we need will be given us, having faith in our visions to guide us. Problems need not daunt us. Rather, they can spur us on to more creative activity. They challenge our capabilities. They insist that we not stand still.
Pity from others fosters inaction, and passivity invites death of the soul. Instead, our will to live is quickened through others' encouragement. All else dampens the will. Pity feeds the self-pity that rings the death knell.
We can give strokes wherever we are today and know that we are helping someone live. And each time we reach out to encourage another, we are breathing new life into ourselves, new life that holds at bay the self-pity that may appear at any moment.
We can serve one another best, never by commiserating with sadness's, but by celebrating life's challenges. They offer the opportunities necessary to our continued growth.
Someone needs a word of encouragement from me. I will brighten her vision of the future.
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Post by BW on Sept 5, 2010 14:01:04 GMT -5
Excellant read for today... No pity pot
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Post by majestyjo on Sept 5, 2020 0:44:46 GMT -5
Had tears tonight, as you know I don't do tears well. Some mixed emotions, missing my son, a little worry waiting for x-rays, hearing they can't operate on my heart, and a general all round feeling of not being able to do what I use to do. Don't see it as pity and sure don't want to be pitied.
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